2020-02-10 16-04-29 PST	Victor Westmann <victor.westmann@gmail.com>	All is well when it ends well. If it is not well yet it is because it didn't end it yet. Thank you for being fair. Sometimes I feel I am the only person in this project that gets offended or that seems to be concerned to remind people that you can't put politeness and good manners aside just because you contribute to the project for X amount of years. But people seem to be receiving this more or less well I would say. So we are making progress.
2020-02-10 15-37-05 PST	Victor Westmann <victor.westmann@gmail.com>	HI René. Thank you for your comment in the survey earlier. If I did any comment that was aggressive or distasteful I would like to apologize.
2020-02-10 17-04-07 PST	Victor Westmann <victor.westmann@gmail.com>	Yeah. It makes sense. I have a part on this as well. I am trying to improve both my tolerance and my wording. Thank you for being light in the chat rooms. Helps things get solved quicker. I am looking to improve my communication for sure.
2020-02-10 15-41-47 PST	René de Hesselle <dehesselle@web.de>	I wasn't sure if I could manage (or it'd be wise) to say something without escalating and without being a passive-agressive a*hole (damn that sounds like a pun at someone's expense but it is not meant that way), but I take offense with "who the heck cares why?" - the simple "I can't think of any use for this question" would have been sufficient.
2020-02-10 15-38-33 PST	René de Hesselle <dehesselle@web.de>	You're welcome.
2020-02-10 16-15-36 PST	René de Hesselle <dehesselle@web.de>	Not to drag this here too long, but I feel the need to say it (and at some point I'll need to say it publicly): I miss that people seem to have lost the skill to argue and exchange opinions and thoughts in a way without feeling the need to discredit the other one's. Or simply put: if I don't like your music, I can say "sorry, that's not for me, I really don't like it" instead of "piece of shit music, only idiots are listening to this, why are you?".
2020-02-10 16-09-57 PST	René de Hesselle <dehesselle@web.de>	It is a difficult topic. And I consider written communication tricky if you don't know someone in person - usually every snarky comment leads to people getting into each other's hair. I will not exempt myself from this, but I'm trying to improve on that regard.
2020-02-10 15-44-48 PST	René de Hesselle <dehesselle@web.de>	So, all is well. I hope I didn't piss off Brynn. She apologized, I acknowledged, let's hope that's the end of it.
2020-02-10 15-43-35 PST	René de Hesselle <dehesselle@web.de>	People are allowed to be impulsive, have a bad day, lash out, etc. - but also sometimes we are allowed to not just swallow it.